When you go rock climbing, there is always a LOT of stuff you need to be able to climb. Ropes, harnesses, caribiners, quick drawers, shoes, slings, chalk bag, and even more if you’re trad climbing. But unless you have someone who shows you how to tie the knots, how to put on the harness, how to set an anchor, the equipment is useless in achieving its purpose. And unless you have a climbing partner, someone who’s got the other end of your rope, you can’t go anywhere.
In life, gaining access to the resources is the easy part, but we need to realise that in order for it to make sense, to show us what needs to happen to make it work, we need people who have been there before, who can teach us, guide us, coach us and even mentor us. We also need someone in our life to be there for us on the other side of the rope, someone who can catch you when you fall, someone you trust. Without these two elements, it will be exceptionally difficult and most likely our beautifully gathered equipment will be in left lying on the ground.
This is what LifeXchange teaches through extreme sports and adventure activities in our Holistic Life Mentoring Process.
Of late I have started thinking more and more that maybe I really am different to the average girl…mostly cos everyone keeps telling me!! But this Easter, spending time with my sisters, I was reminded that it isn’t just me... Let me explain: We only wear make-up on occasions, Perfume too We don’t carry a vanity bag as big as a sports tog bag A hair dryer never occurs We pack light And we can carry it ourselves Going for a wee in the bush doesn’t even feature a moment’s hesitation Spending multiple days on end, far from civilisation, with no running water, electricity or even a bed is considered the ultimate! We don’t wear nail varnish Spiders and bugs are okay even if you have to share a shower with them We know how to change a plug And a car tyre Fishing is a favourite past-time Catching crabs and racing them is fun Identifying birds is common practice Interesting animal facts are a regular discussion If you don’t get dirty, it’s not an adventure Bumps, bruises and scratches are cool, they’re the marks of a good time!
It felt so good to spend time again with some normal girls like me, but I’m beginning to wonder whether they’re ‘abnormal like me’. Perhaps that’s why when we collectively called “The Rapson Girls” it comes with a certain understanding of calibre.